Compulsively Twitchy AKA I Cannot Sit Still (Boston edition)

I had to make the trip from NYC to Boston today. There are a couple of ways to approach this trip. Here are some of them.

(1) Airplane – not bad, but if the fare slot machine lands incorrectly, it costs more money than it should.
(2) Train – I’m not really a train guy. On top of that, due to an accident the day before in Connecticut, Amtrak was shut down.
(3) Bus – Within the NYC – Boston bus community there are a few options. The cheapness to safety factor must always be considered. In the past, rival bus drivers have shot at each other (I am not making this up). The one time I’ve had to make the trip on a bus I’ve used a company called Limo Liner because they serve you food, your seat has a power jack, and there’s wi-fi.

Today was a Limo Liner day. If you follow me on Twitter, you got running commentary about my seat mate. In very quick summary, he was a chronic talker to himself/grunter/sigher/food smacker. It was a bit unenjoyable at times.

Anywho, a little past Hartford, Connecticut the bus blew a tire. To help the bus driver out, half of the occupants started screaming and freaking out. Then a bunch of other funny stuff happened, but I’m too tired to talk about it. After a repair and after watching some of the other passengers climb into taxis, we made it to Boston.

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Compulsively Twitchy AKA I Cannot Sit Still

DCIM100GOPROWoke up this morning at 5 so I could drive to Milwaukee for a 9 o’clock flight to NYC. Hanging out in NYC for the night (right across from the Freedom Tower).

Tomorrow I get on a bus bound for Boston. If I’ve got time and energy, I might run up to Gloucester to see one of my favorite post-rock musicians, Fishing the Sky, play a show at Madfish.

Sunday I might drive to Portland, Maine to see internet friends I don’t see often enough.

Monday and Tuesday it’s meetings in Boston.

Then I fly home.

Then a week later I fly back to NYC for BEA.

A life lived in acronyms,

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Compulsively Twitchy AKA I Cannot Sit Still (guest poet/climber edition)

I recorded a bunch of video when I climbed on Saturday. So far I haven’t put it to use because (a) I was winded for most of it and I don’t want to subject you to that, and (b) I didn’t really have anything to say because I was too busy watching for my next move.

However, my friend Ali is an awesome climber, and she also likes to recite poetry. I loaned her the Go Pro. The video below is Ali climbing while reciting “The Light of Stars” by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.

Compulsively Twitchy AKA I Cannot Sit Still (more from the First Flatiron edition)

Waiting for my climbing partner and friend, Ali, to get the ropes in place so I could go higher, I had a chance to just hang out. This was the view.

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Compulsively Twitchy AKA I Cannot Sit Still (First Flatiron edition)

I climbed my first multi-pitch route today. It was awesome. This is me at the top of the First Flatiron in Boulder, CO.

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Compulsively Twitchy (AKA I Cannot Sit Still)

Bought a new camera. It can do this.
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Compulsively Twitchy AKA I Cannot Sit Still (Grand Canyon sunrise edition)

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The Goodness of Others

Well, it’s been a some kind of week.

There have been bombings, manhunts, earthquakes, legislative shenanigans, flooding, explosions, and even an unhinged Elvis impersonator sending poisonous letters to politicians. In addition to these macro events happening here and abroad, I know other people who are wrestling with personal tragedies far outside the range of television cameras.

I know it’s always easy to believe that the here and now are the most extreme of times, as we don’t always have the benefit of narrative distance, but from a pure headline standpoint, I’m hard pressed to remember any seven day period with so much tragedy spread out so randomly.

My thoughts are with everybody, everywhere tonight.

123I spend a lot of time trying to make sense of the world. One of the reasons I travel so much is because I selfishly want the benefit of others’ experiences. I make sure to meet as many people as I can while I’m on the road. Big cities. Small towns. Folks all across the political, class, race, sexual, geographic spectrum. I’m proud to have friends living such beautiful and unique lives.

I often wish I could retire, buy a big RV, fill it with the people I know and just drive around the country introducing everybody to everybody else. Because the truth of my life is that even though I’ve met some jerks along the way, I am endlessly impressed by the decency of people everywhere. It could be that I’ve just been extremely lucky with the people I’ve met, but I’m near certain that for every awesome new friend I’ve made, there are hundreds behind doors I just haven’t opened.

And how awesome is that? How blessed am I to know that there is, for all practical purposes, an infinite supply of strangers waiting to be discovered? Whose experiences and insights I can learn from? Whose stories will make me laugh and understand the world in new and even deeper ways? It’s really awesome. And I take comfort in that knowledge during weeks like these.

I often find myself wishing I could do more to help others, but don’t always have an outlet. Sometimes I want to set up a 1-800 number to talk to anybody who needs to talk to somebody (because we all need to talk to somebody, sometime) or make a mortgage payment for somebody in danger of eviction or feed somebody who is battling hunger. But I cannot be everywhere all at once no matter how much I wish I could be.

Back to the amazing people in my life.

Though I sometimes complain that I am too dependent on the internet, especially social media, I also count myself fortunate to have friends on Twitter and Facebook who seem to share similar sensibilities, who want to help, who want to celebrate the wonderfulness that comes with being alive, here, now.  I am consistently amazed by these people and their desire to be a positive force in the world.

Here’s an example—

Earlier today a link showed up on my Twitter feed asking people to donate money to Jeff Bauman (http://www.gofundme.com/BucksforBauman), a gentleman who suffered traumatic leg injuries as a result of the Boston Marathon bombing. A photograph of Mr. Bauman and Carlos Arredondo, the man who came to his aid, has become one of the lasting images from the aftermath.

Reflexively, I offered to send free books to anybody who donated to the charity.

But then I remembered how many other people are suffering in the world, not just from the bombing, but what happened in West, Texas this week, earthquakes that killed people in Iran and China, along with the perpetual suffering of others torn apart by famine, war, poverty, and other misfortunes. I then changed my offer to—

Tyrus Books ‏@TyrusBooks12h

I’m going to expand my earlier offer- If you donate OR volunteer in your community in a meaningful way, I will send you free books. Do good.

 

Almost immediately I started getting offers from others that they wanted to contribute music, books, and services to the same cause. The generosity and sincerity of others is pretty mind-blowing. I’m currently putting together a list of what’s available, how to verify, and the proposed machinery for how to make it all work.

It’s late now and time for me to go to bed. If tonight is like every other night, I’ll be trying to make sense of the world in those quiet minutes between lights out and sleep. But I’ll also be thanking my lucky stars for having had the satisfaction of one more day around so many wonderful people.

That includes you.

Love,

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Love. Not Fear. Always.

TPhoto_00012This afternoon, during what should have been a celebratory moment around the completion of the famous Boston Marathon, the script was radically changed. Those on the scene, and those of us scattered elsewhere, were left to ask questions. Some of those questions might not be answered for a while, if ever.

Only time will tell.

What we know is that somebody, somewhere willfully detonated an explosive device with the intention of hurting others. Though the location and the cause changes, what has come before will come again. Bad things will continue to happen to good people, to innocent people, to people who planned for a tomorrow that will never materialize.
We can never let the knowledge of that fate stop us from living.

To be sure, history is littered with the debris of violence and oppression and what sometimes seem like insurmountable odds against happiness.

But, more importantly, history is filled with triumphs of the human spirit, spectacular displays of love and compassion on small and large scales that are infinitely more powerful than any opposition they face. We may sometimes get knocked off our course by the cruel acts of others, but there is Love, like the North Star, to help us find our way again.

Fear is a tool used by people who are manipulative or likewise scared of uncertainty, of the people across from them, of the potential, no matter how slim, that the plans they have made for tomorrow will never be realized. But it doesn’t serve them or you to give into that fear.

The triumph of love is that it exists before us, while we live, and after we have gone. It gives us the courage to reach for and to hold glories that trump the most catastrophic moments we may encounter as individuals and as humankind. It starts within and can be spread to everyone regardless of artificial divisions and geography. It is wherever you are, at all times.

Love. Not fear. Always.

With Love,

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Getting You to a Writing Conference

Do you want to go to a writing conference to learn more about craft, ask questions about the industry, and make connections with other authors? Not sure if you can swing it financially? Ok, well, since I want you to experience goodness and learn plenty, I’ll pick up $100 of the registration fee for one person to the conference of his/her choice.

What’s the catch? There isn’t one. Every now and then I do things like this because, from a totally selfish standpoint, it makes me happy to get people interacting with the world in ways that might help them. Check out the New Year’s Eve contest/offer for the most recent example of this kind of thing. New Year, New Adventure – Your Turn

All you have to do is leave a comment below, say where you want to go and why. One random person will be selected on Sunday night (4/14). If you want conference suggestions, I might be able to provide depending on where you live and the kind of book you are writing.

Questions?

Leave them in the comment section.

UPDATE: Winner was selected. Video documents the selection.